Hey Willie...you can tell your wife that she is correct. Blossom end rot is a disorder that is found often in solanaceous plants (in other words tomatoes, eggplants, peppers, etc.). Luckily, it is not caused from a bacterial or fungal infection. It's not because a worm decided to nest inside your tomato fruit. It is caused by a calcium deficiency in the plant when the fruit is developing. When I was in grad school, we had a visiting professor come into the lab who did some research that showed that a manganese deficiency exacerbates the problem and causes the calcium deficiency threshold to be higher than normal. Lucky for tomato growers, manganese is needed in such low quantities this is rarely a problem. In the following post I will tell you how to treat it.